If you’re a parent who is not particularly active in the world of social media and apps, what is your reaction if you encounter one of the following?
- You see on the news that a local school has been evacuated and a teen arrested after a threat was posted on the anonymous app Yik Yak
- A local TV station runs a story about a pre teen girl who was abducted after being contacted by an adult on Instagram
- A nearby high school football team is suspended after taunting another team on Twitter
- The school sends home a letter warning parents about a rash of cyberbullying incidents, particularly on messaging apps and a social network called fm
Some of the above are fairly rare, but some are all too common, particularly cyberbullying. As a concerned parent, what do you do if you’ve never used Instagram, never heard or Yik Yak or Ask.fm and generally don’t know where to start when talking to your kids about internet and social media safety and responsibility?
Too often, parents’ reaction is to offer a vague warning to their kids, or shrug their shoulders and hope for the best. After all, your kids are good people, and they know right from wrong.
That response leaves a little to be desired.
Of course, your mindset and response could be more proactive. For example, this week Toni Birdsong from Intel’s McAfee division wrote a great article titled “7 Overlooked Ways To Figure Out What Your Kids Are Up To Online”, which is a very good primer for a parent who wants to get started with monitoring and guiding internet behavior.
All of her suggestions are good, but some of them do pose a challenge for a some parents – they either require at least a minimum level of sophistication in dealing with the internet, apps and social media, or they take time – perhaps lots of time.
What about a software solution? Well, installing keyloggers on devices will take even more time to monitor. Installing blocking or filtering software can invoke evasive behavior that you may never know about.
If you’re a parent who only uses a smartphone to make calls and don’t even have a Facebook account, or find that there are nowhere near enough hours in the days as it is, ThirdParent has a solution for you.
We offer the digital parenting industry’s first solution that outsources the work of finding your child’s public accounts and monitoring activity to a third party (us!). We give you access to a confidential Parent Portal with your child’s accounts and activity, and recommendations on how to correct, fix or clean up unsafe or inappropriate activity.
We do the work for you, while at the same time respecting your child’s privacy by not requiring you to submit user names or passwords. Private content stays private, and we give you the tools to correct the public missteps that have been made, or prevent them from happening in the first place.
When it comes time to apply for college or a job, if there’s a cyberbullying accusation at school, or if you are simply worried about your child staying safe in a world where you don’t spend a lot of time, the ThirdParent solution can put your family in the best position possible.
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